EnterCourse.TV: Sex Tips Episode 007 "Sexual Fantasies"
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This is Justine Sane, with yet another Sex Tip. We were lucky enough to have the guys from Cleavlander Entertainment help us out with some great gear as well as a very talented cameraman this week, so you'll find that not only is this episode in a pretty wide screen format, it also looks strikingly better than any of our past episodes. Jake still did all the editing work, so you can thank him for that. Anyways here goes the sexual fantasies episode, let me know what you think- This week is all about sexual fantasies. So picture this: You've mastered the sexual basics, tried pretty much everything, and you're wondering what's next. But before you start suggesting things out of the blue, there are a few things you should know: First, *How To Make The Suggestion, Have a plan!*, Plan A: Wait until you're both feeling relaxed and intimate, then try saying you had an amazingly sexy dream last night. Tell your partner what happened in the dream (which is actually your fantasy) and gauge their reaction. The more detail they asks for, the more interested they probably are in giving it a try. If you they are interested, let go and confess that this has actually been a fantasy of yours for ages. Plan B: If Plan A doesn't go that well, try renting a movie with a scene that features or resembles your fantasy. Watch your partner's face as it's playing. Do they look intrigued or horrified? If their watching avidly, snuggle up sexily and say, "How hot is this?" If their joining in and looking at you mischievously, move in for the kill. And finally Plan C, as a last resort: Buy your partner a sex book with a fantasy theme as a present. If they are shy, let them read it alone first before asking them to tell you their favorite parts. You could even go as far as to stick Post-it notes on the pages or pictures that particularly appeal to you. Next thing to consider, *What Happens If They Reject Me?* Sharing fantasies can be a risky business, particularly if they involve extreme sexual behavior. You might know the sexy story you play in your head is nothing but imaginative fun, but it can sound ominous when spoken out loud. Fantasies are intensely personal and if you've had them for a while, chances are their initial shock value has been diluted. But if a fantasy of yours involves things like sleeping with other men, "fake rape," some kind of swinging or S&M, you need to accept that your partner could be stunned initially. "Kinky" and "perverted" fantasies are commonly used to fuel our imaginations, but it's a rare person who wants it to become reality. Even sharing some fantasies, without any urge but to tell, can be disturbing for some people. So start with "safe" scenarios, then get increasingly more risqué as both you and your partner's comfort level rises. Well that about does it for this week's tip, what are your sexual fantasies? Let me know along with any other questions you may have, by emailing me at justine@entercourse.tv, thanks, and see you next time ;)
| Credits: | EnterCourseTV, Justine Sane, Jake Marsh, Pedro Amador, Cleavlander Entertainment |
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